Tips for a better relationship between husband and wife
Tips
for a better relationship between husband and wife
During marriage, husband and wife promise
each other to be by their side throughout in this life. In most cases, things
turn otherwise and there are divorces taking place daily throughout the world.
In most cases after marriage, it’s not the people who change but both parties
don’t know what is supposed to be done in marriage.
What
you are supposed to do in marriage
Be partners
in decision making process; make decisions as a family. Don’t let one part
impose the decisions to the other. There will be much more harmony in the
family every party takes part in the decision making. You should also be careful
of your words before speaking; sometimes people speak without thinking
especially when they are upset. When you are angry, be composed and wait until
you calm down before continuing the conversation
Show
affection; be gentle, kind and loving to your partner whatever the situation.
For a better relationship, you must be your spouse’s friend; take your spouse
as a friend and not just a lover. Share your secrets together, show interest in
your mate’s life, play around the house as you would do with your best friend.
Show appreciation;
appreciate what your spouse does for the family. Never let your spouse know
that they are not doing enough for the family. If you feel that your spouse is
too lazy, never let them know what you think about them but encourage them to
work harder in a friendlier manner. Appreciate everything your spouse does for
the good of the family.
Work together
in the house; help each other with small chores in the house like cooking,
washing. Do together these chores and it will strengthen your relationship. Talk
to your partner. Communicate to each other. Let your communication be
accompanied by body languages, touching and maintaining eye contact. Whenever
you have a challenge, speak it out and let your partner help you find a
solution.
Once a
problem has been solved, put it behind you and forget them. Don’t attack your
partner with what they did long ago. Live a simple life. Appreciate what you have
and live the life you can afford. Don’t envy other people’s relationship as it
may end up ruining yours. Compare your life with those who have less than you
have and not those who have more than you have.
Give
your spouse time alone; sometimes your spouse may prefer to be alone. This does
not mean that they don’t want to be with you, maybe they are thinking of better
ways to be with you. Admit your mistakes and correct them always. Lastly Mind
your discussion topics- don’t bring up topics that upset your partner for
discussion
What
you shouldn’t do in a relationship
For a good relationship, no partner should
be a dictator over the other. You should also not be led by emotions. Do not be
violent; allow to solve your problems amicably without using force. This will
lead to better solutions and better relationship
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